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高考后要学会的几件事儿
日期【2019-08-06 17:48】 共阅:【】次
 
其实,高考只是人生成长过程中的一个仪式,他以考卷的形式,给你的十年寒窗苦读画上句号,再去开启新的篇章。而高考分数,只是决定着接下来三年或四年的时间里,你要去什么地方生活。
 
三四年之后,你将去什么地方,将走到怎么样的位置,将面对怎样的失败与成功,这些并不是高考分数可以决定的。
 
高考,并不能决定你的一生。高考结束后,你的人生才算是真正开始。
 
 
 
高考后,你要学会的第一件事,是独立生活。
 
高考前我们有一个具体的目标,有一群为了共同目标而一起努力的人,每天都过得很充实。可高考后,这样子的目标已经消失了,没有人再为我们定目标,再驱使着我们前进了,我们却突然无法适应了,不知道一个人该怎么生活。
 
何为独立生活?独立生活在于生活能自理,思想能独立,经济能自由。
 
离开了父母温室般的呵护,独自一个人去外面经历风风雨雨,该如何学会打理自己接下来的生活,这些是高考后应该去学习的技能。
 
思想的独立在于自己的精神世界能够不断地丰富起来,能够克服孤独寂寞,能够有自己的精神追求,能够在合群人中有自己的特点,适当的不合群。
 
高考后的你,已经是成年人了,应该学会做一个断奶的孩子,不要总是吸取父母的“乳汁”,好好为未来盘算,看看怎么学会经济独立,减轻父母的负担。
 
考卷上分数越来越高,不代表你越会生活,分数越低,也不代表你不会生活。人生的质量,关键看你怎么去生活,而这些,并非分数可以决定的。
 
高考后,你要学会的第二件事,是为人处事。
 
高考前,你所在的环境中,分数决定你的位置,决定你在大人眼中是“好孩子”还是“坏孩子”。可高考前,你已经进入到了另一个世界,这个世界,不单单只是凭借着分数来衡量你。
 
 
在这个新的世界里,别人会根据你为人处事的方法,来衡量你在他们心里的位置。怎么对人,怎么对事,这里蕴含着你的三观,三观不同的人,为人处事的方法也截然不同。
 
你的处事方法让人舒服了,别人就会把你放在心里。你的处事方法让人不舒服,别人会离你而去。
 
究竟如何为人处事,小到如何回复别人的一句话,大到如何大度地处理一件让自己不舒服的事情,这些都是人生的智慧。
 
而这样的为人处事,需要我们有意思的去学习,甚至是我们一辈子都需要学习的智慧。
 
高考后,你要学的第三件事儿,是为自己读书。
 
 
高考前,我们是为高考而读书。高考过后,很多人庆幸自己已经逃离书本的苦海,能够远离每天与书为伴的日子,故而开始天天游玩。
 
 
殊不知,高考前的日子,你是为了读书而读书,可高考后的日子,才是你能够真正为自己读书的时候。
 
高考的结束,让我们迎来了更加广阔的空间,而我们究竟是从一个鱼缸跳往另一个鱼缸,继续挣扎,还是走向更广阔的的空间, 吸食知识的甘露?这些取决于我们的眼界,取决于我们的思维,取决于我们的智慧。
 
眼界、思维、智慧的提升,离不开平时读书的积累。人应该学会终身学习,而不是伴随着高考的结束而结束学习。
 
 
高考后,你要学会的第四件事,是交友。
 
人生最珍贵的,是有三两好友,彼此互帮互助  共同成长。
 
 
有些人身边经常有成群结对的朋友,有些人却总是孤独一人,没有任何朋友。
 
 
有些人总是会全心全意为朋友考虑,去帮助朋友;有些人却总是想着处处压榨朋友。
 
 
有些人想着与朋友共同成长,可有些人却看不惯朋友好。
 
不同的交友方式,决定着你的交友层次。你需要去考虑怎么跟朋友更舒服地相处,怎么让自己在朋友心里留下不可替代的位置,怎么让朋友跟你有聊不完的话题。
 
交友涉及到讲话的艺术,涉及到交往的技巧,涉及到做人做事的方式,这些,是我们一生必学的技巧。
 
 
别紧张,高考成绩决定不了你的一生,高考只是为十年寒窗苦读画上一个句号。
 
 
高考结束,真正的人生,才刚刚开始!
 
 
 
 
In fact, the college entrance examination is only a ritual in the process of growing up. In the form of examination papers, he will end your ten-year hard work and start a new chapter. The college entrance examination score only determines where you are going to live in the next three or four years.
 
After three or four years, where will you go, where you will go, what kind of failures and successes you will face, these are not the scores of the college entrance examination.
 
The college entrance examination does not determine your life. After the college entrance examination is over, your life is really starting.
 
 
 
After the college entrance examination, the first thing you have to learn is to live independently.
 
Before the college entrance examination, we have a specific goal. There are a group of people who work together for the common goal, and they live a very fulfilling day. After the college entrance examination, the goal of this kind has disappeared. No one has set a goal for us, and then drives us forward. We suddenly can't adapt, and we don't know how to live alone.
 
What is independent living? Independent living means that life can take care of itself, that thought can be independent, and that the economy can be free.
 
Leaving the care of the parents in the greenhouse, going alone outside to experience the ups and downs, how to learn to take care of their next life, these are the skills that should be learned after the college entrance examination.
 
The independence of thought lies in the fact that its spiritual world can be continuously enriched, able to overcome loneliness, to have its own spiritual pursuits, to have its own characteristics in the group, and to be inappropriate.
 
After the college entrance examination, you are already an adult. You should learn to be a weaned child. Don't always take the "milk" of your parents, and plan for the future to see how to learn economic independence and reduce the burden on parents.
 
The higher the score on the test paper, does not mean that you will live more, the lower the score, does not mean that you will not live. The quality of life depends on how you live, and these are not the scores that can be decided.
 
After the college entrance examination, the second thing you have to learn is to do things for others.
 
Before the college entrance examination, in your environment, the score determines your position and decides whether you are a "good boy" or a "bad child" in the eyes of adults. Before the college entrance examination, you have entered another world. This world is not just about measuring you by score.
 
 
In this new world, others will measure your position in their hearts based on how you do things. How to behave to people, how to do things, here are three views of you, three different people, the method of doing things is very different.
 
Your way of doing things is comfortable, and others will put you in your heart. Your way of doing things is uncomfortable, others will leave you.
 
How to deal with people, how to respond to others' words, how to deal with a matter that makes them uncomfortable, these are the wisdom of life.
 
And doing things like this requires us to learn interestingly, even the wisdom we need to learn all our lives.
 
After the college entrance examination, the third thing you have to learn is to study for yourself.
 
 
Before the college entrance examination, we were studying for the college entrance examination. After the college entrance examination, many people are glad that they have escaped from the bitter sea of ??books, and are able to stay away from the daily life with the book, so they start to play every day.
 
 
As everyone knows, in the days before the college entrance examination, you are studying for reading, but the days after the college entrance examination are the time when you can really study for yourself.
 
The end of the college entrance examination has allowed us to usher in a broader space. Are we jumping from one aquarium to another, continuing to struggle, or going to a broader space, absorbing the knowledge of the dew? These depend on our vision, on our thinking, on our wisdom.
 
The improvement of vision, thinking, and wisdom is inseparable from the accumulation of ordinary reading. People should learn to study for life instead of ending the study with the end of the college entrance examination.
 
 
After the college entrance examination, the fourth thing you have to learn is to make friends.
 
The most precious thing in life is that there are three or two friends who help each other and grow together.
 
 
Some people often have groups of friends around, and some are always alone, without any friends.
 
 
Some people will always consider their friends wholeheartedly to help their friends; some people always think about squeezing friends everywhere.
 
 
Some people think about growing up with friends, but some people can't get used to friends.
 
Different ways of making friends determine the level of your friends. You need to think about how to get along with your friends more comfortably. How can you leave an irreplaceable position in your friends' minds? How can you let friends talk to you?
 
Making friends involves the art of speech, the skills involved in communication, and the way in which people do things. These are the skills we must learn in our lifetime.
 
 
Don't worry, the college entrance examination results can't decide your life. The college entrance examination is just a long-term endeavor for the ten-year window.
 
 
The college entrance examination is over, the real life is just beginning!